314. The world’s highest level league game ( Sottaku league ) is open!

Through soccer, children are able to think and act on their own, and improve their skills, tactics and humanity with a four-step theory.

今年度もヤバいリーグ戦が開幕しました。The dangerous league game has started this year.

何がヤバいのか?What’s dangerous?

それは、that is,

「子どもの成長率」です。It is “the growth rate of children”.

そのリーグ戦の名前は、The name of the league match is

「啐啄(そったく)リーグ」“Sottaku League”

啐啄は啐啄同時から来ています。Sottaku is coming from Sottaku douji.

詳しくは去年のブログを参考にしてください。Please refer to last year’s blog for details.

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95.95. Jリーグでもブンデスリーガでもない。It is neither a J-League nor a Bundesliga. 啐啄(そったく)リーグです!It is a 啐 啄 (リ ー グ た く) league!

 

さて、このリーグ戦はWell, this league match

  • 審判なしで子どもたちのセルフジャッジChildren’s Self-Judgement without Referee

 

  • ペナルティーエリアがオフサイドラインPenalty area is offside line

 

  • ノーコーチングで子どもたちが、メンバー、作戦、交代などを決める。With no coaching, children decide on members, operations, and shifts.

 

  • 子どもが自分たちでタイムスケジュールを見て、何時にどのコートで試合かを確認する。The children see the time schedule by themselves, and at what time and on which court they are playing.

 

 

当然失敗も沢山あります!Naturally there are many mistakes! (笑)(Lol)

 

  • 到着するやいなや2年生が「パスモがない!」ということで5年生がダッシュで探しに行ってくれて無事に発見!As soon as they arrived, the 5th grader went for a dash in search of “no pasmo!” And found it safely!

 

  • 時刻表の平日と土日を見間違える。He miss the weekday and the weekend on the timetable.

 

  • 間違ったバスに乗り、途中で気付く。Take the wrong bus and notice on the way.

 

  • ケンカが勃発。Kenka breaks out.

 

  • 試合のスケジュールを把握せず、自分たちの試合なのにピッチに相手しかいない。Without knowing the schedule of the game, even though they are their match, there is only opponent on the pitch.

 

  • ベンチで寝そべっていたら、試合中のボールが飛んできて顔面にぶつかる。If you lie on the bench, the ball during the game will fly and hit your face.

 

一番感慨深いのは、5年生が2・3年生を電車バスで試合会場に連れてきた事です。The most intriguing thing is that the fifth grader brought the second and third graders to the game hall by train bus.

電車の乗り換えは何度もあり、駅からはバスに乗る。There are many train transfers, and I take a bus from the station.

2年前は連れてきてもらう立場。A position to be brought in two years ago.

今年は低学年を連れてくる立場。A position to bring lower grade this year.

そしてもちろん、試合の合間、試合後には水遊び♪And of course, during the game, after the game ♪

驚いたことに、解散前にK君が水遊びしていた場所に走って行き、みんなの忘れ物がないか確認しに行きました。To my surprise, I ran to the place where Mr. K was playing in the water before the break up, and went to check if everyone had lost something.

それを見ていた仲間が「いいとこメガネ」でしっかりとそれを発表する!The fellow who was looking at it announces it firmly with “good cousin glasses”!

チームで使ったビブスをたたんでしまっている子もいる。Some children have had the bibs they used in the team.

荷物を整理しようぜー!Let’s organize the luggage! と声をかけている子もいる。Some children are calling out.

試合内容は、味方の位置をよく把握して1タッチ、2タッチで小気味良くパスをつなぐ。The contents of the match are grasping the position of allies well and one pass, two touch connects the pass with good feeling with two touch.

キーパーから組み立てようとしている。I’m trying to assemble from the keeper.

かと思えばトップの選手はドリブルで強引に突破してシュートまでいく。If it thinks, the top player dribbles and aggressively breaks through and goes to the shot.

ロングシュートも強烈!The long shoot is also intense!

皆がピッチで自分を表現していて、とにかく楽しそうにプレーする。Everyone is expressing himself on the pitch and playing happily anyway.

それらは、このリーグ戦の環境のおかげでしょう😃They will be thanks to the environment of this league game😃

ジュントスさんやその他の参加チームの皆様に感謝です。Thank you to FC Juntos and other participating teams.

また来月からもよろしくお願いいたします♪Also thank you from next month ♪

今日1日があなたにとって楽しい1日となりますように。I hope today will be a fun day for you.

(^-^)/てつ(^-^) / Tetsu

★伊勢原駅前に国産木材でスタジアムを作る★★ Make a stadium with domestic wood in front of Isehara Station ★

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313. My child, just complaining! That’s good! He will play an active part in society in the future!

Good morning. I’m a kid’s specialist, Teppan Coach.

The new year has started and it has been about two weeks.

If you are strongly rejecting changes in the environment, or if you have one side that does not try to bend rigidly once you argue once, it may be a “negative type”.

At the Japan Kids Coaching Association , human beings are born with five temperament.

It may be uneasy to hear negative, but please rest assured.

There are many good things to do and parenting can be unbelievably easier if you can understand the negative characteristics.

Negative children always complain and say the opposite thing.

It is “a manifestation of anxiety.”

“Say again complaining!”

“Why are you always complaining!”

“Why not ?!”

I would like to say

 

Oh, this boy is full of anxiety now.

 

If you can think of it, you won’t get lost.

If you have a lot of anxiety, you can alleviate it by tapping into something you like.

On the contrary, it can lead to confidence.

It may be art-related or sports.

Originally, people have a greater concentration and sense of responsibility, so if they can exert their abilities, they may become artists and athletes.

It gives the best results if given a job, and in fact it is also a negative type feature that can be active as a leader.

What I used to say, “I can not understand my child” turns into “exciting” if I can understand the characteristics of temperament.

I was looking forward to it in the future!

 

I hope today will be an exciting day for you.

 

(^ _-)-☆ Tetsu

 

★ Make a stadium with domestic wood in front of Isehara Station ★

312. Why is life determined by childhood work?

Good morning. I’m a kid’s specialist, Tetchan Coach.

 

The approach to the children’s age determines the life of the child.

I used to go to elementary school every day in Shonan Bellmare’s circuit classes, and I met about 15,000 people a year.

Through football I have conveyed the virtues of “caring,” “cooperation,” “giving.”

I have noticed that.

That means that even though they are telling the same thing, the way of entering the heart is completely different in sixth grade and first grade.

After all, the lower the age, the more flexible the mind.

You can say frankly “Thank you!” Or “Sorry”.

Even a 45-minute lesson can make a dramatic difference.

That won’t be the case when the grade comes up.

Of course, since the ego is also emerging, a little bit of word is not readily available.

Take care of friends.

Thank you.

Think in the other party’s position.

I can’t say a little word.

Can you do a little action?

That’s how human relationships change.

You can learn them through football.

However, it is better to learn lower than older ones.

Moreover, it is important to accumulate the work in each practice.

Forrest staff are all understood, approached to the grade, approach to the individual.

http://ifc-forest.ciao.jp/

I hope today will be a wonderful day for you.

(^-^) / Tetsu

★ Make a stadium with domestic wood in front of Isehara Station ★

311. Thoughts for forest start

Through soccer, children are able to think and act on their own, and improve their skills, tactics and humanity with a four-step theory.

 

When I launched Isehara FC Forest, what turned out to be a turning point in my life was studying abroad in Germany.

What I thought and left Japan.

that is,

 

Having your own life cut out by yourself.

 

If you don’t say anything, no one listens.

If nothing moves, no one sees.

There is no one who cares.

If you stay there, you will be recognized as “people who want to stay there.”

 

vice versa,,,

 

I will hear it if I say a word.

I will watch it if I move.

Connect with people and life starts to move.

When it becomes active, it is recognized as an “active person.”

Let’s go for a drink! It is invited.

Let’s play soccer! You can talk to me.

Let’s eat together! And the party begins.

There are more friends.

You will be able to do what you want to do.

Everybody helps.

 

It depends on how you live.

So it’s very free.

But freedom = responsibility

Others can not live their lives.

My life is my responsibility.

 

So first of all children learn through football.

that is,

 

 

“Do yourself thinking and acting”

 

 

It becomes.

Isehara FC Forest

Children through football,

It is a football club where you can think and act on your own.

Official website is here

Moth

http://ifc-forest.ciao.jp/

 

May today be a day to start something for you.

 

(^ _-)-☆ Tetsu

 

★ Make a stadium with domestic wood in front of Isehara Station ★

310. It is slow to build ○○ and it is instant to break.

Good morning. I’m a kid’s specialist, Teppan Coach.

“Building a relationship of trust with your child”

That is the first thing you should do, if you are a coach

Also, it is no exaggeration to say that it will last forever.

It takes time to build a trust, but it’s an instant to break.

There was a 5-year-old boy who once loved me.

He was always working hard on football and physical education, and he enjoyed to participate.

So I also loved him.

However, in the physical education lesson of one day, the child deliberately makes fun

 

“Can I quit physical education?”

 

Had said to me.

I was very shocked.

I do not know what he said so.

Maybe physical education was boring.

I understand that it is not the one I really said.

But as i am annoyed

“If you want to quit, why not do it today?”

I was told with an angry look.

The child was said to be kidding, but I was fascinated by a great expression from me.

Even though the relationship between me and the boy was doing so well,

It ended with “I” with my expression.

I was hurting him and my trust relationship was no longer restored.

As I mentioned before, I can not forget the face of the child and the troubled face of the child’s mother.

You can not build a trusting relationship in an instant.

Conversely, trust relationships can be broken in an instant.

That is one word.

It’s really a moment.

If I can not afford my mind, I will immediately be irritated.

Even if I don’t have to get angry, I get angry.

I reflect on myself at that time.

Well, what is your state of mind today?

 

I hope today will be a day for you to learn a lot.

(^-^) / Tetsu

★ Make a stadium with domestic wood in front of Isehara Station ★

309. Conversation techniques for children to study from themselves

Through soccer, children are able to think and act, and they are the town revival soccer coaches who improve their skills, tactics and human power with the four-step theory.

勉強でもスポーツでも親が子どもにやらせるのではなく、自分からやるようにしたいですよね。I would like parents to do their own work, not studying or doing sports, to their children.

そのためには褒めること、認めることが大切です。For that purpose, it is important to give up and acknowledge.

しかしながら私たち親が「褒める・認める」をすることが少ないのが現状です。However, the present situation is that there are few cases in which our parents “give up and acknowledge”.

褒めることが見つからないんです。I can not find that I give up. という人も多いのではないでしょうか。There may not be many people.

なぜか?why?

それは、大きなこと、成果の出たことを誉めようとするからです。It is because we try to praise big things and achievements.

例えば、For example,

テストで100点取った!I took 100 points in the test!

サッカーでシュートを決めた!I decided to shoot with football!

などです。Etc.

でも100点取るまで待ってられない。But I can not wait until I get 100 points.

シュートを決めるまで待ってられない。I can not wait until I decide to shoot.

一体いつになったら褒めるタイミングが来るのか、、、When will it be time to give up, …

となりませんか?Is it not?

宿題を自分からなかなかやらない場合、If you do not do homework from yourself,

やりなさい!do it! と強制したくないですよね。I do not want to force it.

宿題があるのかないのか聞いてみて、こどもがもしAsk if there is homework or not, children

「あるよ。今日はこれとこれ!」“There is. Today is this and this!”

みたいに答えてくれたら、If you answer me like

「じゃあ、早くやりなさいよ!」“Oh, do it fast!”

ではなく、not,

「おっ!そうか!今日はこれとこれなんだね。宿題のこと覚えているんだね」“Oh! I see! Today is this and this. I remember my homework.”

だけでOK!Just OK!

あとは放っておく(笑)Let’s leave the rest (laughs)

数日たって、A few days later

「宿題やらなきゃ。めんどくさいな~」“I have to do my homework.

と言ったら、If you say,

「そんなこと言ってないで、はやくやりなさい!」“Don’t say that, do it fast!”

ではなく、not,

「やらなきゃいけない!って分かっているんだね。分かっているだけでも凄い!」“I know I have to do it! I know. Even if I only understand it is amazing!”

だけでOK!Just OK!

あとは放っておく(笑)Let’s leave the rest (laughs)

このように行動に対してではなく、意識していること、覚えていること、ちょっとの意欲を認めて、言葉を繰り返してみる。In this way, you are not aware of your actions, but be aware of what you are aware of, remember and a little willingness, and repeat the words.

100点取るまで褒められないのか、I can not give up until I get 100 points,

ちょっとやる気を見せただけでも褒められるのか、Can you give up just by showing a little motivation?

これは大きな違いです。This is a big difference.

座って鉛筆を持っただけでも凄い!Just sitting and holding a pencil is ugly! となります。It will be.

やれなくてもOK!Even if you do not do it OK!

「座って鉛筆を持てたね!」“I sat and got a pencil!”

これ以上は言わない。I will not say more than this. 放っておく(笑)Leave it alone (laughs)

100点を取るための最初の1000分の1を褒めるのです。I give up the first thousandth to get 100 points.

はじめは「経験」という名の薄い紙を1枚1枚重ねていく。At first, we will stack thin sheets of paper named “experience” one by one.

1枚1枚は薄いので、なかなか高く積み上がりません。Because each sheet is thin, it does not pile up quite high.

でもそれが数ヵ月後に1枚の紙の厚さが急に分厚くなるんです。However, the thickness of a sheet of paper suddenly becomes thick after a few months.

やがて段ボール箱を重ねていけるようになるんです。It will eventually be possible to stack cardboard boxes.

最初から段ボールを重ねようとしても無理に決まってます。Even if it is going to pile cardboard from the beginning, it is decided forcibly.

子どものちょっとした変化や言動を認める。Recognize minor changes or behavior of the child.

ただそれだけ。Just that. . .

でもそれが出来るためには、あなたがストレスフルな状態だと不可能です。But to be able to do that is impossible if you are stressful.

心に余裕がないからです。Because I can not afford my heart.

まずは、あなたはあなたを大切に。First of all, you cherish you.

自分自身にも薄い紙を1枚。A thin sheet of paper for myself.

このブログを最後まで読めた自分に拍手👏Applause to myself was reading this blog until the last 👏

毎日読んでいたら、あなたも私も知らないうちに成長しています。If you read it every day, you grow up without even knowing you.

今日も読んでいただき、ありがとうございます。Thank you for reading today.

今日1日があなたにとって素敵な1日となりますように。I hope today will be a wonderful day for you.

(^-^)/てつ(^-^) / Tetsu

★伊勢原駅前に国産木材でスタジアムを作る★★ Make a stadium with domestic wood in front of Isehara Station ★

308. I know the solution to the problems and troubles in front of me.

Good morning. I’m a kid’s specialist, Teppan Coach.

Trouble of work.

Home troubles.

Trouble of human relations.

Worried about parenting.

Trouble of life.

Various problems and troubles are lying in front of you.

As long as you live, that is the natural appearance of human beings.

Profession, I may be troubled or consulted.

But I wish I could do this! Oh good! There is hardly to say.

Because the solution to the problem and the trouble is in oneself.

Even if it says, I think that it is hard to believe quickly.

I was the same.

A friend will suggest a solution.

However, there is oneself who is not convinced about it.

Then another friend who was watching the situation,

“Don’t you agree?”

“Because the real solution is in me”

I told you that.

I didn’t know at that time, but after all it looked like it! It becomes.

While talking to someone about troubles and problems,

Ah! Really! Do you have anything to flash?

Or are you not going to get rid of your mind while talking?

The problem is created by myself.

So I know the solution.

Is there anyone who can talk to you?

Please contact me if it is a child’s football or parenting.

But I just listen

Is that the answer? ? ?

 

That’s right. Because it is in you.

 

 

I hope today is a wonderful day for you.

(^-^) / Tetsu

★ Make a stadium with domestic wood in front of Isehara Station ★