Good morning. Kids’ specialist, Tetchan coach.
In the circle meeting after practice, I try to convey things I want you to fix for people with advice glasses as well as cousin glasses.
However, if you tell the things you want to improve (requests) too directly, it will generate a rebound.
Actually, there is a way to tell the other party to accept your request quickly.
I have talked about before, do you remember?
That’s a “sandwich of words”.
I want you to do this! “Request” is to sandwich with “approval” or “thankful words”.
For example, instead of “eat quickly!”,
“I’m glad that you always eat anything you do not like and dislike.If you eat quickly and wash your dishes more quickly, you will spend more time reading picture books thank you for always saying Mama’s dishes are delicious!”
I am glad when I say like this, time to read picture books also increases, I can quickly clean up, I do not need to get angry, I can eat deliciously, finish eating soon, smile ,,,
Before getting angry with “Please do it quickly”
Hmm! What? Wait a moment! By the way, there was a sandwich of words! I hope I can remember it.
For that, always try using it for the time being!
And it may be better to check the reaction.
Next time I will write about conjunctions.
I wish you a day of smile for you all day today.
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