Good morning. Kids’ specialist, Tetchan coach.
Today from American clinical psychologist Rogers
Let me tell you how to listen to the child’s story.
This is a very important skill for teaching soccer or parenting.
① “Self-match” to accept your own self
You do not need to hide or distort your own ideas.
Also, I will not show you well more than I need.
“You are you”. That’s fine.
② “Accepting unconditional affirmation” to accept with respect and compassion
Everyone is different.
The way of thinking, feeling and how to catch is different.
Let’s admit it as an irreplaceable existence whatever its values.
③ “Understanding empathy” to understand from the inner point
Let’s feel and think from a child’s standpoint.
The answer that I really want to understand is on the inner side of the child’s mind.
These are also called three terms of Rogers and are skills that counselors use
You can use parenting or teaching soccer.
You can write in sentences smoothly,
When it comes to actually doing. . .
. . . Is not it? . .
I wish you a happy day for you all day today.
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