Good morning. Kids’ specialist, Tetchan coach.
Have you labeled your children today? It is a story.
“You are a great girl ~”
“You are a good kid, are not you ~”
Praise words such as praise, may actually be counterproductive even if you intend to praise.
It is important to note that if the child is small, it will sound straight to the heart.
Children, of course, do not want you to be disliked.
Then, what kind of thinking will be ,,,,
“If you are not a good girl you think …”
And acts unconsciously.
If you fail, you get angry. To children who can not challenge. . .
The words “baby child” and “good child” you use casually (casually) means that you put the label on your child.
Notice the small change of the child, acknowledge it and make it words.
Let’s tell by I message.
~ Summary of today ~
- Do not affix a good child’s label.
- Do not limit actions.
- Accept failure.
- I will not get angry.
- I make small changes to words.
- Tell in I message.
I wish you a happy day for you all day today.
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